Much ado is made about “date nights” — how important it is for parents to take some time for themselves. The fact that so many think our exhaustion can be “solved” by a friend’s neighbor’s uncle’s coworker’s 15-year-old kid only highlights the strength of our collective denial when it comes to the problems that plague modern parents. It’s a denial fueled by a profound lack of understanding, a stubborn unwillingness to listen, and an unrelenting insistence that these problem…